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Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Monday, November 17, 2008
I haven't been blogging in a while. It may be that I will start blogging a bit more again - we'll see about that.
In the mean time: here's other places to find me:
A new friend, Jo Kristian, keeps a blog where he also happens to write about me once in a while: HiStoriesOfSex.
As always, I can also be found on Xtube, GayWatch and penest.no.
Sunday, June 1, 2008
A guy who posted some comments on this blog, has a cool website with interesting stories. Have a look: Histories of sex. Apparently, he's both an exhibitionist and voyeur...
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Apparently, the German teen magazine Bravo has a thing going on, in which young German men, age 18-22, get €400 for posing for a nude photo for the magazine.
I find the whole idea very sexy. Although it is a very innocent photo, it is also a very popular magazine, which means that a model can count on everybody he knows to know of the photo within hours of the magazine hitting the stores... If there was such an offer in Norway, I guess I would be terribly tempted...
Friday, September 14, 2007
10:47PM
I haven't posted for five weeks, livejournal tells me. That's partly because not much has happened - I have been a "good boy", studying a lot and been with my boyfriend and so on.
The experiment of trying to keep our dorm a nude area did not go well. Jon was wonderful, as mentioned in this blog, but then Maria came. The three of us were sitting in the kitchen in the nude when she arrived, and it took her just a few seconds of confusion before telling us that she would not allow any nudity in the kitchen... She said it with a lot of confidence, and as I'm sure the authorities (the student bodies regulating the dorms) would agree with her, we didn't put up a fight. It turned out, however, that when she said "the kitchen", she meant exactly that, and she hasn't commented on us going in the nude to the bathroom or answering the door in the nude or things like that. So she's far better than what we could have got if we would have been really unlucky...
Moreover, Jon was even more wonderful than we imagined when we first met him. It turned out that he is an amateur photographer, and only a few days after arriving in this dorm and realizing our relaxed attitudes towards nudity, he asked if we would be willing to model for him - preferably as a couple. To my great surprise, my boyfriend immediately said that we would be willing to do that. Of course, he knew that I would be eager to do that, but I would never think he would. A nice surprise!
So, just a few days later, we modelled for Jon in his room in the dorm. He wanted to take some erotic (but non-pornographic) photos of the two of us, and we did quite well for a while, but then the situation got the better of us, and both I and my boyfriend got raging hard-ons that we couldn't help taking care of. Jon did nothing to stop us, to put it mildly - several times, he suggested things for us to do, and the photos he ended up with were quite a lot more explicit than he had imagined when he set out. He showed us the photos later, and he was really a great photographer in the cramped circumstances.
Of course, I've begged my boyfriend that we should let Jon publish some of these photos, but that's the limit, it seems. So I will just have to tell you about it, instead of showing...
One little, tiny detail happened a few days later, however. I had copied the photos to my USB memory stick, and then copied them to my PC. A few days later, I "lost" the memory stick at the University. I call it "lost", because I'm quite sure someone must have stolen it from the PC I was using while I was in the cafe for just a few moments. I hope the guy who stole it deleted all the files without looking at it - although a little, exhibitionistic part of me hopes he didn't...
Sunday, August 5, 2007
Long time, no blog. Well, before getting back to serious posting, I thought I'd link to some of my favorite sites.
Chris Geary is certainly always interesting. The cool thing is that he takes part in parties and things like that, and often get people to strip for his camera. I must certainly admit that if I came across Chris Geary at a party, I would certainly not stand for his charm if he tried to get me to get off my pants for a photo. I regard his site as a roll of honor, and dream to be there one day...
Another terribly interesting site is MasterMaster's galleries. He is based in Oslo, and apparently gets people to take off their clothes and don SM stuff for his camera. Although this is not something I could do under the present arrangement with my boyfriend, the thought of it turns me on. I've never tried SM in any significant way, but just consider the position of being tied up and photographed and know that the photos are heading for the internet - maybe even before you are untied... Watching the photos makes me horny as hell...
A very different site is Ewoud Broeksma's site, where he posts nude photos (and other photos) of athletes and others. Some of them are amazingly cute...
The last kind of site I would like to mention are blogs that talk about nude events, such as Bjørn's blog. I couldn't make it to Roskilde this summer either, but one year I definitely will be on the starting line in this nude run...
So many dreams, so much to achieve... But at least the MasterMaster thing is possible if my boyfriend is also turned on on the idea...
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Okay, this is it. Today, a new guy moved into the dorm. I wasn't expecting anyone to move in this early, but he was REALLY fed up with his parents, so he chose to move long before the start of the school year.
Well, first things first: these last few weeks, mostly it's been just me and my boyfriend in the dorm. This means that we haven't been wearing anything for weeks. So this morning, we were having breakfast in the kitchen in the nude when we heard a key in the lock. In came Jon, a cute guy who looked quite shocked - and embarrassed - to see us naked. I got up and greeted him, and then he said hi to my boyfriend. We chatted for a few minutes, and then he was off to his room to settle in. He seemed to get over his initial embarrassment, but seemed quite occupied with watching our dicks - trying not to be too obvious...
Maybe 20 minutes later, he came back with just a towel around him, explaining that he wanted to have a shower. "It seems it's ok to walk around in the nude in this dorm?", he half asked. We told him nudity was ok in this dorm. Then he unfastened his towel and put it over his shoulder instead - "Then, I'll prefer to walk around like this," he smiled...
I sure want to get to know Jon better - he seems cool. Maybe the three of us can go out to a nude beach one of these days? I'm sure he will also help us persuade the other newcomers that nudity should be allowed in the dorm...
Thursday, June 28, 2007
I'm worrying a bit about how this dorm will be next year. This year seems like a strike of luck: I happened to be the first one to move in after the summer, and I started to walk around in the nude, partly because there was simply noone there. The second guy to move in didn't seem to mind, and actually took up the habit as well. Then the third, the fourth, the fifth and finally the sixth person moved in, and all of them seemed to adjust to it. I was lucky that all of them was young and had their first year in a dorm, which may mean that they didn't "know better". Anyway - this whole year, it's been totally accepted in our dorm to walk in the nude to and from the showers, or to pick up something in the kitchen in the nude. Moreover, I've always been naked in my own room, and whenever anyone wanted to talk to me, they expected to see me in the nude. One of the guys liked it so much he came more often, and ended up becoming my boyfriend... :-)
But what about next year? Will we be able to pull off the same thing next year? Only three of us will stay, so there will be three new people. What if they object to seeing nude guys - will the dorm change? I guess the best thing we can do is to try to do the same trick as last year - just go nude and expect them to adjust. I really don't want to have to worry about clothes in my own dorm...
Come to think of it, this is anyway not the best solution I could wish for. In my fantasies, I'm dreaming of renting a BIG apartment with rooms for maybe ten people, and rent out the rooms of the clear understanding that this is a clothing-optional dorm. Then noone could complain. Of course, in my dream, I would also talk my boyfriend into being much more "open-minded", so that I could put photos of me and my roommates on the internet. Maybe this could be a variant of the hotel I wrote about earlier - where there could be webcams in every room, and we could try to cut the rent by getting income from a website...
Well, all these are just dreams - at the moment I have to hope for a nude dorm for one more year. I'll keep you posted...
Monday, June 25, 2007
On Thursday, I got what I've been dreaming of for a long time: I had a nude model to photograph!
I've been thinking of this for a while, and tried to persuade friends to be my nude model, but I've had no luck. Until last weekend, that is, when a gorgeous friend of mine called and asked if I was serious that I wanted him to model for me. He said that he had always wanted to have nude photos taken, but had never dared ask anyone. He made me promise that I wouldn't publish them without his permission, and then we went on to discuss the details...
He was very open-minded, and I was very happy that he agreed when I suggested that we take my boyfriend along with our tent to the forests north of Oslo. We found out that Thursday was a good day, so off we went...
After walking for a bit more than two hours, we were at the place which I was thinking of: next to a small lake and usually without people around. My boyfriend set up the tent while I started photographing. We had talked about what we wanted in advance - I wanted a "story" wherein we (the camera) first observe him at a distance. He is getting rid of his clothes without knowing that anyone is around, and then he realizes that the camera is there, and then there are a few photos of him posing for the camera. We had also agreed that my boyfriend and I would also be nude - to make it easier for him...
This was as much as I had planned, but unsurprisingly, by the time he got nude and were ready for posing for the last photos, he was horny as hell. The idea of stopping there was obviously ridiculous, so I asked him to start working on his cock. He was wonderfully sexy as he was jerking off on the edge of the beautiful lake, in plain view of whoever might be there (probably noone, though).
I'm not allowed to post any of the photos from that day (yet). And after his jerk-off, I put away the camera. But when I looked at my boyfriend, I saw that he was as turned on as me, and we quickly agreed to have some fun. So we invited this guy into our tent and had a nice evening indeed...
He was very happy with the photos, and wants to try again later - as soon as it stops raining here in Oslo...
Monday, June 11, 2007
Sunday, June 10, 2007
At last, summer is finally here. And with temperatures in the high 20s in Oslo, there was only one thing to do: to head for a nude beach. So off I went!
My boyfriend had an excuse, so I had to go alone. I went to the nude place near Sognsvann. It's not really a nice place (I prefer the nude beach at Bygdøy far more), but it's close to home. The water is not clean, but today it was anyway far too cold to swim...
I don't really have much to tell - I spent almost four hours on a towel reading and listening to my iPod. A couple of times, some men turned up - as this is quite a popular cruising spot for gays. As I have a boyfriend, I had to pretend not to be interested. That was especially hard with the last one - he was a cute boy with a great body, and his cock stiffened as he was looking at me. Sorry, pal...
There were also a few people who were not there to cruise - at least three times, people seemed surprised to see a naked man there. That is always so interesting - seeing how they are surprised, embarrassed, at the same time as not being able to keep their eyes to themselves... :-)
But the main point of the trip was of course that it was great to be nude in nature again. I'm afraid I enjoyed it just a little too much - my so-called "tan" is a bit too red, and my boyfriend was upset when he saw my pink dick this afternoon. But when I found the after-sun lotion and asked him to administer it, everything was okay again...
I am having discussions with my boyfriend about going to the Roskilde music festival this summer. He thinks it's a bit too expensive, and he has a point. (We should stay in Oslo and also try to work a little to save up...) But for a few years now, I've been dreaming of taking part in the nude run. Seems cool...
Thursday, May 24, 2007
Nothing is as good as a nice nude swim with good (and good-looking) friends!
Current mood:  cheerful
Saturday, April 28, 2007
I've become very interested in the digital camera's effect on how people deal with nudity.
Of course, for me, using an old-fashioned camera was part of the thrill when I took the first nude photos of myself (which are still available on flickr, by the way. Granted, the photos didn't get as good as they could have, but the excitement I got from handing the photos in to the gorgeous guy at the local photo shop, was more than compensation enough. (He couldn't hide a smile when I picked up the photos, and he asked - as he probably has to - if I wanted to check out the photos there and then. They had a policy that you could return any photos you were not happy with, as long as you did it immediately. So I took the photos out of the bag, and slowly leafed through them with him staring from two metres away. More on this later...)
For others, the digital cameras has been a revolution. I didn't realize this before, but recently, I have asked all my friends and lots of others, if they have ever taken nude photos of themselves. It turns out that almost everyone has done that - practically instantly when they got their hands on a digital camera for the first time. This goes for gays, straights, young and a bit older... It also goes for both boys and girls - no particular difference.
I have also asked if they have kept these photos, and how they keep them safe. Almost everyone has kept their photos. The amazing thing is that quite a few keep them in sites such as Flickr - but marked so that they are only viewable by themselves. I'm surprised that people trust such sites enough to do that - if they don't have a secret wish that the photos should become public, that is. A few of my friends have also admitted that they have published their photos - anonymously - on different kinds of websites.
This is a revolution. Twenty years ago, I will guess that most people felt too inhibited to take photos of themselves and get them developed and printed. Many places it wasn't even allowed. Now, the first step of getting the photos taken and printed is far easier. And as soon the photos are available, it takes just a few minutes of horniness to put them on the net. My prophecy is that fifty years ago, it will be unusual to find people who has never had their nude photo published on the internet. Whether or not they will admit it, however, that's another story.
The friends I've been talking to, have made me really eager to see their photos, by the way, so I hope the upcoming discussions will end in me getting a peek at them... :-)
Saturday, April 14, 2007
I don't get many comments on this blog, but I do get a few emails from time to time. (And that is always good fun - hint, hint... :-) Yesterday, I got a very interesting message. It read (and here I'm translating from Norwegian):
"Hi! It was a pleasant shock to see your nude photos on your blog! It brought back pleasant memories...
You don't remember me, I guess. I was a kid one or two years younger than you who lived across the street. But I certainly remember you - I remember vividly your routine when going to bed. You almost always came into your room at between 11 and 12, turned on the light, went over to the window and opened it, undressed slowly but completely, made up your bed, turned off the lights, and only then went over to the window to close the curtains. For almost a year, I was hooked - I sat at my desk by the window, pretending to read a book or something, eager to see you for these short minutes every night. I envied your nerve - and it turned me on. I'm glad to see you haven't changed much.
Yours, ..."
I certainly remember my "routine", of course - often, this simple act of exhibition turned me on and I had to take care of my raging hard-on before going to sleep. I don't really remember this guy, though, although I remember sometimes seeing - or having a fantasy about seeing - a face in one of the windows opposite mine.
I also remember, though, that a few times I went to the bed and jerked off BEFORE closing the curtains. I wonder whether he saw me those times. I'll have to write him a reply. I also wonder what happened in his bed after I had closed my curtains... :-)
Friday, April 13, 2007
I admit that I was perhaps a bit TOO frustrated in my post yesterday. I think I should be quick to add that although I have fantasies that I cannot experience, I do love my boyfriend very much. And that life with him is sexy and cool...
This Easter, we were able to have his parents' cabin in the mountains on our own for a few days. That was wonderful. We spent much of the days skiing, and came back to the cabin in the early afternoon, tired and sweaty. We got the fireplace working, and got rid of our clothes. Then we headed for the sauna (yes, I know we are lucky to have such a luxury...) It was just wonderful to be nude with him in the sauna. The sauna has a door leading to the back of the cabin, so when the sauna got too hot, we could just open the door and have a little "fight" in the snow before heading back into the heat. If you haven't tried it, you don't know how wonderful this feels...
On our last day, we followed the same routine, but when we were out playing in the snow in the nude, we suddenly realised that we were being watched. It turned out that a few guys and girls were on their way to a cabin a bit further up the road. They laughed out loud at our surprised looks, and we heard that they kept laughing even after we was back in the sauna. It must have been a wonderful sight... (I just wonder if any of them managed to get a photo of us!) Unsurprisingly, this turned me on, as if being naked with my boyfriend wasn't enough - so we had some great sex...
A lovely Easter in the traditional Norwegian way, with my lovely boyfriend...
I'm a bit frustrated these days. That's maybe also why I don't update this as often as I thought I would.
On the one side I'm very happy with my boyfriend. I love him very much and we are having lots of fun together - not to mention lots of great sex. He is a beauty, and I know that I'm lucky to have him.
On the other side, I don't get any way of having fun with my exhibitionism. Our discussions about this is becoming the main subject of this blog, I'm afraid. I keep thinking what I would love to do, and always end up with the irritating thought that I can't do it, because my boyfriend wouldn't like it.
My main fantasy right now is a simple webcam thing. I spend lots of time in my room reading, as there is an exam coming up. I also tend to spend that time in the nude. I would just LOVE to have a webcam broadcasting my room on some site 24 hours. I get hard from the idea of waking up in the morning knowing that the camera is set on the bed, and knowing that someone might be watching me without me having any way of knowing who they are. To start jerking off in the bed, knowing there might be someone jerking off with me somewhere in the world. And then, after coming, walking over to the computer to check if there are any messages from anyone who saw it.
Or, on a boring day of studies, keeping the website up to date with messages such as "will read until 13, may jerk off then..."
I think it's quite probable that I will actually do this if I ever break up with my boyfriend - my urge for some sort of "showing off" on cam is growing every day. At least summer is not too far away, so we will be going to nude beaches, and that's a comfort. He has also almost agreed that we will go camping in the forests of Oslo this summer - and be nude whenever there are no people around. But of course my webcam fantasy is a lot hotter than that...
Current mood:  frustrated
Friday, March 2, 2007
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